Our greatest asset

“Our needs are our greatest assets. It turns out I’ve learned to give all the things I need.” 

- Andrew Solomon

The above quote blew me away when I heard it earlier during Solomon's TEDTalk. It inspired me to evaluate the things I most desperately yearn for in my life, and made me wonder how I should go about turning these needs, or weaknesses, into strengths (Ether 12:27) in the way that Solomon was able to do.

Most importantly, Solomon reminded me of a lesson I learned long ago about the good that can come from tribulation (D&C 122:6-7). It reminded me that the things we lack often hold the potential to become great blessings in our lives. After all, if I have suffered some unfortunate event, this pain grants me exclusive insight.

I take comfort in the knowledge that my painful experiences allow me to empathize with those who have suffered similar pain. In experiencing the need for something - whether it be physical, emotional, or spiritual - we can develop a greater ability to show compassion. No one needs to feel like they are fighting a battle on their own.

Please be mindful that I am NOT perfect at living his principle yet. I still find myself wallowing in self pity from time to time on a daily basis. I resist the wisdom of seeing the greater picture, and I narrow my focus to only my life, and my suffering. When I do this, I feel almost completely engulfed by my weaknesses.

So I'm glad Solomon, and those more diligent in following this ideal, continue to remind me that the way out of our metaphorical abyss is to use the things we KNOW (even when all we seem to know is pain or struggle). We can become experts in our struggle, and find passion in overcoming those challenges so that we can then lend a hand to those in need.

Indeed, this ability can become our greatest asset if we choose it.

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